[VioletttaJosetta]

is someone suggesting that you confront everyone on every little matter?

I personally don't think that would be wise, inshaAllah you will be rewarded for being patient about people treating you badly rather than starting arguments with everyone

most of the times nothing good comes from confrontation, some small things should just be ignored and overlooked but don't wish bad for those people who hurt you, pray for their guidance and overlook small things

if its something big such as somebody spreading false information about you then it is probably best to take them in a private area and ask them what is going on but not with the intention to start an argument...rather try to clear whatever misunderstanding has happened

wallahu alam