[ugosanchezo]

is someone suggesting that you confront everyone on every little matter?

I personally don't think that would be wise, inshaAllah you will be rewarded for being patient about people treating you badly rather than starting arguments with everyone

most of the times nothing good comes from confrontation, some small things should just be ignored and overlooked but don't wish bad for those people who hurt you, pray for their guidance and overlook small things

if its something big such as somebody spreading false information about you then it is probably best to take them in a private area and ask them what is going on but not with the intention to start an argument...rather try to clear whatever misunderstanding has happened

wallahu alam

Thanks for reading sis, no one is suggesting I confront on every little matter, and yes I agree this is unwise indeed to do so.

I am being told that I don't always share my opinion about others so therefore I am keeping "keena" malice in my heart. I don't want to share such opinions because like I said, we like some ...some we don't but hey it's life we can't like everyone at the same level.
I do inshallah overlook many things, even though I know myself to be right but I don't want to go into arguements saying...." you said this ...I said that blah blah blah".

May Allah guide us all inshallah.
Allah is my witness inshallah , I have overlooked and ignored false accusations that could have tarnished me but I believe being patient and staying quiet Allah protected me. What hurts is they were close family