[BoBoMasterDesign]

Everyone is different. Some ppl can stay quiet and some cant. My sister and I are like day and night. She has to get stuff off her chest but she will says what she needs to, to that person, and not behind their back. Not so much in a 'accusing' manner or 'confrontational' manner, but some things just need to be said. I, on the other hand, hate confrontation. Even with no confrontation, I just stay quiet. But thats me. I can handle it and just brush it off (sometimes with time, lol). I wouldn't be able to do what she does. I do tend to keep alot of anger in my heart and sometimes 'blurt' it all out. But its very rare and the other person usually has tested my patience right to the last nerve, subhan'allah. I can only recall a handful of occasions if that, where I blurted out. But the number of 'fights' I've probably avoided, I doubt I would be able to count.

So stay the way you are, iA