[Olphander]

my parents never took us to mixed weddings. Sometimes it was such that even close family friends, their children's wedding we did not go to. Of course there was one family who decided they would put not only a purdah but actually hire two separate halls. They were very accommodating . Another time we drove two hours to a wedding, when we got there there was such loud music my parents just turned around and left. The family did not take it well, in fact they didn't talk to my parents for more than a year before getting over it.

One should simply stay away. And if it's hard, then make a white lie like "I am sick" like Ebrahim 'Alayhis Salaam did. Moulana Yunus Patel saheb Daamat Barakaatuhum mentioned of someone who actually took laxative to keep away from some function that would have haraam.

Allah knows best when we're going to die. Why put our final moments in jeopardy by going somewhere that is full of sin?