Today, there are very less people and families who are doing like this. Alhumdulillah, I'm one of those , thanks to Ulema's lectures which brought me to this stage. But I attend those functions in which at least there are are no sins. Last marriage which I was attended was my own sister one and that too one was compelling one. I don't care the hell what others say about this. Same like facebook, here also some people uses the so what call word "dawah" like You should go with the intention of making them on the right path That's cool, I say to myself, Enjoy Biryani with different tastes and after burping ,go to them and say this is not correct brother/sisters... BTW I'm famous in my family for not attending any marriages.. .. .