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The first thing i inquire if someone asks me to come for marriage is about dowry. If they say that the person has taken it, then i do not attend. I didnt go to many of my cousins marriage too. I have never attended any rasams after marriage, even in my own sister marriage, i was sitting outside the function hall at that time. When she was leaving, i just saw her from a far away distance. Infact no one asked me to come there except some older women asking where is me. The reply they get is " he doesn't attend this kind of things which are not permissible in Islam". So i believe atleast i was able to give them the true message