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**IvJlNwum** · 12-27-2011, 05:54 AM

My advise would be this despite having no experience of marriage.

Studying medicine is a very tough task and will eat away many years of your life but in the end, you'll be able to reap the rewards. Of course, since your a Uni student, you're an adult and can get married at any time you wish. Parents (imo) should never dictate when and where their child should marry - that should be the individual's decision as long as he/she is a mature individual and capable of standing on his/her own two feet.

Since you are going to spend many years studying, it MAY make sense to get married to a person of your choice. You don't necessarily have to live with him until you finish education but you can still meet him and do whatever a married couple would do. After all, this is you life choice, not your parents.

In my eyes, marriage is one of the most beautiful things life has to offer and I personally cannot wait till I get married - of course to a woman I love and share similarities with. Only the couple knows when they are ready for marriage, so ultimately it's for you to decide - what are you most comfortable with?

I hope my post made sense because I have a habit of rattling on and not making sense sometimes.

12-27-2011, 05:54 AM	#25
IvJlNwum Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 507 Senior Member	My advise would be this despite having no experience of marriage. Studying medicine is a very tough task and will eat away many years of your life but in the end, you'll be able to reap the rewards. Of course, since your a Uni student, you're an adult and can get married at any time you wish. Parents (imo) should never dictate when and where their child should marry - that should be the individual's decision as long as he/she is a mature individual and capable of standing on his/her own two feet. Since you are going to spend many years studying, it MAY make sense to get married to a person of your choice. You don't necessarily have to live with him until you finish education but you can still meet him and do whatever a married couple would do. After all, this is you life choice, not your parents. In my eyes, marriage is one of the most beautiful things life has to offer and I personally cannot wait till I get married - of course to a woman I love and share similarities with. Only the couple knows when they are ready for marriage, so ultimately it's for you to decide - what are you most comfortable with? I hope my post made sense because I have a habit of rattling on and not making sense sometimes.
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