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**DzjwMKo5** · 12-27-2011, 05:53 PM

unfortunately marriage is not an option here, my parents wouldnt agree..i will have to follow brother Murad h's method

Narrated 'Abdullah (razi) We were with the Prophet while we were young and had no wealth whatever. So Allah's Apostle said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power."

You need to find ways to convince your parents for marriage & make dua for same,as the above saying was for sahaba (razi),whose imaan & modesty in comparison to us is those of drop of water to water of ocean.We are living in a world of fitna where modesty are overtaken by obscenity.You can marry to male from medical background who can assist you & convince your parents with this.

12-27-2011, 05:53 PM	#31
DzjwMKo5 Join Date Nov 2005 Posts 547 Senior Member	unfortunately marriage is not an option here, my parents wouldnt agree..i will have to follow brother Murad h's method Narrated 'Abdullah (razi) We were with the Prophet while we were young and had no wealth whatever. So Allah's Apostle said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power." You need to find ways to convince your parents for marriage & make dua for same,as the above saying was for sahaba (razi),whose imaan & modesty in comparison to us is those of drop of water to water of ocean.We are living in a world of fitna where modesty are overtaken by obscenity.You can marry to male from medical background who can assist you & convince your parents with this.
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