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**mypharmalife** · 12-22-2011, 07:41 PM

Brother don't make this about you. Please don't do anything stupid no matter how much you want to.

The thing with young people is if you are too strict they will make bad choices, if you're too lenient they will make bad choices. The only thing you can do is teach them good boundaries and most importantly be someone they can confide in. It doesn't mean she will never make mistakes but she will have a compass to get on the right track. They have to be able to trust someone, your sister is scared of your mum, and she cannot speak to you about stuff. Then who can she speak to without being judged? Add to this she cannot go out like a normal person may do in this society. So really what is this house for her? A prison. Build trust with eachother.

12-22-2011, 07:41 PM	#12
mypharmalife Join Date Nov 2005 Posts 340 Senior Member	Brother don't make this about you. Please don't do anything stupid no matter how much you want to. The thing with young people is if you are too strict they will make bad choices, if you're too lenient they will make bad choices. The only thing you can do is teach them good boundaries and most importantly be someone they can confide in. It doesn't mean she will never make mistakes but she will have a compass to get on the right track. They have to be able to trust someone, your sister is scared of your mum, and she cannot speak to you about stuff. Then who can she speak to without being judged? Add to this she cannot go out like a normal person may do in this society. So really what is this house for her? A prison. Build trust with eachother.
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