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Old 07-11-2010, 08:33 PM   #37
Markdogas

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As-salaamu Alaikum,

I am 20 years old and in college in the United States. I grew up in the Nation of Islam. I never learned to pray properly and have never been to Jummah prayer. Nor have I learned alot of the basic Arabic words that every muslim should know because this has not been adressed at the mosque that I went to. A week ago, I went to I masjid for the first time in my life and I began reading and studying the Qur'an on my own. I found resources to guide me as I am learning to pray and to be a practicing muslim. I never took Shahadah and Insha-Allah, I will take it very soon, within the next couple of weeks.
I don't know how to feel about the fact that I thought I was learning all I needed to know until I stepped outside and saw that no other muslim in the world could understand why I did not know how to make salat when I told them I was muslim. I am going to start going to a new masjid but I worry about my family and the people that I grew up with in the Nation of Islam misunderstanding me and thinking that I am misguided. With Allah's (SAW) guidance I know I am making the right decission in learning how to pray and starting to wear the hijab. I got some funny looks from the sisters of the Nation of Islam mosque the first time I wore my hijab wrapped in the traditional style instead of in a bun at the back of my neck(which exposed curls of my hair). I would like any words of advice on what I should do because I feel that I have missed out on something very precious in my growing up. Also, I am not familiar with joining a masjid where the brothers and sisters pray at certain times, remove their shoes, and anything else that I may not know about, so I would like some pointers on that, as well as what I should do or say when I am ready to take my shahadah. Insha-Allah someone out there will help me to figure this out by the grace of Allah (SAW).
-Thank you to anyone offering your words
-As-salaamu alaikum, Sister Hannah
Salaam sister, i am very happy to read your post mashallah and feel you are a very kind hearted sister whom allah has favoured with guidance.

I also feel the manners here in addressing you havent been great. As people of haqh (truth) we should have exemplary manners and behaviour towards people, especially a sister like yourself who has come running towards the truth with open arms.

The advice concerning taking shahada asap has two aspects to it.

1 dont take shahada untill your sure its the truth

2 when your 100% islam is the truth dont delay as you wouldnt want to die before taking shahada, the second you take shahada inshallah your Slate is wiped clean and you will be forgiven any sins until that point although you sound like a really decent sister mashallah but im sure you'll agree that we all fall into sins.


With your parents i advise not to tell them straight away. Focus on yourself first, make sure you really know where your at, study and learn from the masjid, get strong in your faith and then when you have good knowledge gently start to do dawah with your family inshallah, bring them to circles and to the masjid, bring them to break fast during ramadahn with the muslim community, show them the beauty of islam, and show them how true religion is colour blind and that black, white and everything in between can all be brothers and sisters and that our creator would never favour a people based on colour of skin, but by piety and good deeds.

I recommend this site:

Www.islaam.ca

Notice the two a's in islaam


Abu zakariyah i also got into islam via wu tang clan, some of them are sunnis though.
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