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**duminyricky** · 11-26-2011, 10:13 AM

Walaikum salaam.
Thanks you all so much for your replies. But I need everyone to understand I'm a new Muslim & don't understand any of the terms used in this thread at all?
I feel very embarrassed to write this as you all have taken your time to help me & I don't have the knowledge to understand what anyone is saying??
Please don't think I'm a waste of time, im not the type of person who just sits back and waits for knowledge to come to me, I do try very hard to gain knowledge & mashallah my knowledge is growing day by day.
I am learning Arabic and have one Arabic class for an hour each day, I have stopped watching television & listening to music and these times are now spent watching lectures, reading & studying Quran.
So please inshallah be patient with me..
Jazakallah khair.

Sorry brother if u didnt understand what was meant. Actually these are very typical n common in work of dawah. Apologies. I would to suggest u few things.

1) Get a book called "Fazail e amaal" (Virtues of deeds) by Hazrat shaykh zakariya (r.a). Fix a time n start reading it for 5-10mins, no lectures, no sermons, just read the book everyday with steadfastness and faith in Allah,IA you will see the conditions changing.
2)As i said above dont give her two many lectures or naseehats as they sometime bug u, so treat her with love and try to keep some books of deen for women in home (like something related to hijab,chasity etc) but dont tell her to read. Let her willinly approach them.
3)See if the work of tableegh is going in ur nearby masjid.spend time with them n ask them when do they have any taleem etc for women and try to send her there.
4)Dua and sadaqa as brother pluto said, they are the best we can do.

If anything else comes to my mind, will post.

11-26-2011, 10:13 AM	#17
duminyricky Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 464 Senior Member	Walaikum salaam. Thanks you all so much for your replies. But I need everyone to understand I'm a new Muslim & don't understand any of the terms used in this thread at all? I feel very embarrassed to write this as you all have taken your time to help me & I don't have the knowledge to understand what anyone is saying?? Please don't think I'm a waste of time, im not the type of person who just sits back and waits for knowledge to come to me, I do try very hard to gain knowledge & mashallah my knowledge is growing day by day. I am learning Arabic and have one Arabic class for an hour each day, I have stopped watching television & listening to music and these times are now spent watching lectures, reading & studying Quran. So please inshallah be patient with me.. Jazakallah khair. Sorry brother if u didnt understand what was meant. Actually these are very typical n common in work of dawah. Apologies. I would to suggest u few things. 1) Get a book called "Fazail e amaal" (Virtues of deeds) by Hazrat shaykh zakariya (r.a). Fix a time n start reading it for 5-10mins, no lectures, no sermons, just read the book everyday with steadfastness and faith in Allah,IA you will see the conditions changing. 2)As i said above dont give her two many lectures or naseehats as they sometime bug u, so treat her with love and try to keep some books of deen for women in home (like something related to hijab,chasity etc) but dont tell her to read. Let her willinly approach them. 3)See if the work of tableegh is going in ur nearby masjid.spend time with them n ask them when do they have any taleem etc for women and try to send her there. 4)Dua and sadaqa as brother pluto said, they are the best we can do. If anything else comes to my mind, will post.
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