And one more thing; Mary, the mother of Jesus is one of the greatest women ever to have lived. If I end up in jannah (I pray we all do), without doubt I will receive less reward than her yet she will receive only one husband and I would receive multiple wives... all this means is that either there is a difference in the quality of the spouses so that her one husband is greater than all my spouses combined or that she is given other things that I will not be given and could not even imagine. I personally think it is both