Salaam Aleikom everyone, i am having a kinda strange feeling and i am a bit confused on a subject. Recently i am interested in sufism & the science of purification of the heart. Now i read that a musim must control his anger and jeeous feelings etc. I heard sufi masters are the one who don't hit back when someone hits them in the face, their the ones who control all these wrong feelings. I also now islam teaches the principle of controlling anger, and we now that the Prophet is the bext example fo follow, yet im confused by the next hadeeth, which suggests that the Prophet saw cursed a orphan girl ( for a reason unknown) , me as wanne have the Prophet as best exmaple. find it hard to imagine the Prophet do this ( may Allah swt forgive me for my wrong thoughts) , but read the next hadeeth: I wanne know it this translation of the hadeeth correct and what reason had the Prophet saw for saying this, perhaps someone knows the background of this orphan girl. I am having some strange feelings of confusion in myself, since i believe the Prophet saw is the best example to follow, i am having some confused feelings to see the Prophet saw in this hadeeth cursing a orphan girl, especially since she was a believer, and in all other hadeeth i see the prophet saw as such a lovely person who completely controls his anger, like i know those sufi masters wanne be and teach their student , the full control of one anger and wrong emotions, i hope someone can help me in understanding this hadeeth