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**wsbizwsa** · 11-24-2011, 02:34 AM

Wa Alaikum Salam,

You should know that, there are shaytans for every single aspect of our lives. There is a specific shaytan that will try to cause confusion in you about your wudhu, so if you get dirty thoughts that doesn't make your wudhu spoiled. What breaks wudhu is known and they are few. Go buy a Hanafi fiqh book that covers some basics.
You mustn't miss Fajr, just sleep after you pray isha, go to the masjid and pray and come home and sleep. These are some simple stuff you have to be able to do, you have to learn to close your computer at times.

If you can't do that, find halal ways to punish your nafs after sinning each time. For example; pledge to yourself that if you sin again, each time you will give $100 in charity, or that you will fast for 10 days, or watch no TV and no computer for a week. Once you stop sinning for 40 days, the desire goes away.

Recite a lot of salawat during the day, as that keeps the shaytan away. And I would recommend that you read Imam Ghazali's book on "The remembrance of death and the afterlife" this book is a must if you want to stop sinning.

And finally, make since dua for yourself, this works, I've tried it. Wake up for tahajjud and pray 8-10 rakats in peace and tranquility, and once you are done, make dua, and this is how you make dua;

First you say; Alhamdulillah ir Rabbil Alamin; then you send blessings to the Prophet(saw); Allahumma salli ala sayyidina Muhammadin wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa sallim. Then you ask Allah(cc) whatever you want for and know that your prayers will be accepted and ask for guidance, and serenity, power and strength against your nafs, shaytan, dunya, and your hewa.

Follow this advice thoroughly for a week, and let me know.

11-24-2011, 02:34 AM	#2
wsbizwsa Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 360 Senior Member	Wa Alaikum Salam, You should know that, there are shaytans for every single aspect of our lives. There is a specific shaytan that will try to cause confusion in you about your wudhu, so if you get dirty thoughts that doesn't make your wudhu spoiled. What breaks wudhu is known and they are few. Go buy a Hanafi fiqh book that covers some basics. You mustn't miss Fajr, just sleep after you pray isha, go to the masjid and pray and come home and sleep. These are some simple stuff you have to be able to do, you have to learn to close your computer at times. If you can't do that, find halal ways to punish your nafs after sinning each time. For example; pledge to yourself that if you sin again, each time you will give $100 in charity, or that you will fast for 10 days, or watch no TV and no computer for a week. Once you stop sinning for 40 days, the desire goes away. Recite a lot of salawat during the day, as that keeps the shaytan away. And I would recommend that you read Imam Ghazali's book on "The remembrance of death and the afterlife" this book is a must if you want to stop sinning. And finally, make since dua for yourself, this works, I've tried it. Wake up for tahajjud and pray 8-10 rakats in peace and tranquility, and once you are done, make dua, and this is how you make dua; First you say; Alhamdulillah ir Rabbil Alamin; then you send blessings to the Prophet(saw); Allahumma salli ala sayyidina Muhammadin wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa sallim. Then you ask Allah(cc) whatever you want for and know that your prayers will be accepted and ask for guidance, and serenity, power and strength against your nafs, shaytan, dunya, and your hewa. Follow this advice thoroughly for a week, and let me know.
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