Sister, I would recommend for you to avoid this site and turn to Allah (SWT) for help and guidance. He says about promoting his site: ...Hazrat Pir Sahib said:-"..Whosoever shall hear my discourses, and pass those on to at least ten new people every month and inform them about this place, he shall receive a blessed gift from Allah for that action, his one trouble will be removed, one disease will be healed, and Three Hundred Thirteen righteous deeds will be added to his account.... He says about receiving gifts: Hazrat Pir Sahib said:- "..Although it is acceptable and in accordance with the Sunnah to offer Nazrana for prayer and Wazeefa. However, it does not mean that a person should put himself or his family in any difficulty to make such exuberant offering of Nazrana which really is not affordable. Usually, a donation equal to the value of 2.5 to 5 Tola* silver is quite sufficient. For this reason, I have directed my followers and students not to accept any thing more than the equivalence of 5 Tola Silver. Instead, they should convince the giver, if it is really affordable, to pay Sadqa for the access amount.