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**Machater** · 11-18-2011, 01:51 AM

Honestly nowadays it is very rare to find good and pious girls. At least I didn't see one where I live.

The main reason I think is, Internet & TV bundle that bombards our hearts and minds with what not.. one day you are super Muslim, the other day you are down. Being constantly exposed to such things brings about severe wounds and erosion in hearts. So the souls and minds become pretty much polluted. Scholars such as Imam al-Bukhari and Imam ash-Shafi'i used to memorize instantly... whereas we... no room for comparison.

Amidst eroding factors of society we live in either one should isolate himself from all and everything, or be submerged in from all angles. It is so difficult to find the middle way.

So true my brother. Temptation surrounds us; you just can’t escape it especially if you’re living in the West. To resist is to feel deprived and bored. But in reality, that’s only a phase and if we endure that phase, Allah SWT will send ease down upon us making what was once difficult and ‘painful’ now effortless and enjoyable for us.

My brother- for what its worth- I believe Allah SWT can grant you theperfect wife but on one condition wallahu a'lam: that you yourself believe He SWT will too. Perhaps many of us don't apprecitate how important it is to think well of Allah SWT and have the best opinion of Him SWT no matter how bad conditions are or how pear-shaped things are going in our lives. Allah SWT does not have the ‘heart’ to turn us away if we keep begging Him SWT. He SWT is too kind/loving/gentle to an extent we cannot even comprehend. If we keep hoping in Him SWT regardless, He SWT will most certainly grant us way more than we asked for and He SWT make us wonderfully pleased.

May we estimate Allah SWT His SWT due estimation. Amin thumma amin

Anything good I said here is truly from Allah SWT walhamdullilah. The rest is from me, my nafs and shaytaan the rejected.

11-18-2011, 01:51 AM	#31
Machater Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 444 Senior Member	Honestly nowadays it is very rare to find good and pious girls. At least I didn't see one where I live. The main reason I think is, Internet & TV bundle that bombards our hearts and minds with what not.. one day you are super Muslim, the other day you are down. Being constantly exposed to such things brings about severe wounds and erosion in hearts. So the souls and minds become pretty much polluted. Scholars such as Imam al-Bukhari and Imam ash-Shafi'i used to memorize instantly... whereas we... no room for comparison. Amidst eroding factors of society we live in either one should isolate himself from all and everything, or be submerged in from all angles. It is so difficult to find the middle way. So true my brother. Temptation surrounds us; you just can’t escape it especially if you’re living in the West. To resist is to feel deprived and bored. But in reality, that’s only a phase and if we endure that phase, Allah SWT will send ease down upon us making what was once difficult and ‘painful’ now effortless and enjoyable for us. My brother- for what its worth- I believe Allah SWT can grant you theperfect wife but on one condition wallahu a'lam: that you yourself believe He SWT will too. Perhaps many of us don't apprecitate how important it is to think well of Allah SWT and have the best opinion of Him SWT no matter how bad conditions are or how pear-shaped things are going in our lives. Allah SWT does not have the ‘heart’ to turn us away if we keep begging Him SWT. He SWT is too kind/loving/gentle to an extent we cannot even comprehend. If we keep hoping in Him SWT regardless, He SWT will most certainly grant us way more than we asked for and He SWT make us wonderfully pleased. May we estimate Allah SWT His SWT due estimation. Amin thumma amin Anything good I said here is truly from Allah SWT walhamdullilah. The rest is from me, my nafs and shaytaan the rejected.
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