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**mv37afnr** · 11-13-2011, 11:38 PM

More of a reason why today should be allowed in the masjed. They can't even observe the basic!!
Perhaps these women were shia. Accidently walked into sunni area..

One has to be in la la land to think one have to be non muslim to check this hijabi tarts!! People suppose to lower the gaze. The word SUPPOSE to but dont'. I remember one head of an organisation told me there are people who check up other brothers wives!!!!!
So don't delude yourself in thinking the world is utopic when in most cases with highten notion of sexuality, it is the opposite.
The Hijabi feminist ought to take heed. it is no wonder why it is recommended for women to stay indoor.

Many of them are simply Muslim by culture and do not take their faith seriously. I was at MSA east zone conference, and the speaker reprimanded the women for not covering properly, and they had the audacity to get offended. He also reprimanded the brothers for wearing tight, lowrise pants, which is the newest disgusting American/European fashion trend.
My friend who reverted to Islam is from Argentina. She said there is a big beautiful masjid there, and it has a gate keeper, who is not even Muslim, he needed a job and the masjid hired him. People who want to come in the masjid knock at the gate, he answers, if it is a man he enters, if it is a woman, he hands her a once piece full body cover that she puts on and returns when she leaves. he does it in a very polite manner, no one gets offended by being asked to put it on, and no men have to risk their eyes falling upon a woman's body while in the house of Allah. We have extra hijabs for women, but no one stands at the door and offers them to uncovered women.

We have an issue with men not respecting women at the masjid, even those of us who wear a plain black abaya and hijab, with no fancy stuff on it, still get stared at and harassed. My friends father does not like my friend going to the masjid anymore because men who were obviously not wanting her for the right reason were approaching him constantly, and then sending their friends to ask about his daughter. He couldnt go to jummah without soo many men trying to get information about her. So she stopped going. She used to volunteer there but she hates being there because the men do not lower their gaze. If we say no to them then they start spreading rumors like "she's married, she has a child, she's divorced" just because their upset that they got rejected. the only women who dont get harassed are the niqabi women, no one bothers them at all, my friend and I were talking about wearing niqab just to the masjid to avoid the attention but we werent sure if thats allowed. Unfortunately sometimes we get more respect from non-Muslim men on the street than we do from our own brothers in Islam.

11-13-2011, 11:38 PM	#28
mv37afnr Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 412 Senior Member	More of a reason why today should be allowed in the masjed. They can't even observe the basic!! Perhaps these women were shia. Accidently walked into sunni area.. One has to be in la la land to think one have to be non muslim to check this hijabi tarts!! People suppose to lower the gaze. The word SUPPOSE to but dont'. I remember one head of an organisation told me there are people who check up other brothers wives!!!!! So don't delude yourself in thinking the world is utopic when in most cases with highten notion of sexuality, it is the opposite. The Hijabi feminist ought to take heed. it is no wonder why it is recommended for women to stay indoor. Many of them are simply Muslim by culture and do not take their faith seriously. I was at MSA east zone conference, and the speaker reprimanded the women for not covering properly, and they had the audacity to get offended. He also reprimanded the brothers for wearing tight, lowrise pants, which is the newest disgusting American/European fashion trend. My friend who reverted to Islam is from Argentina. She said there is a big beautiful masjid there, and it has a gate keeper, who is not even Muslim, he needed a job and the masjid hired him. People who want to come in the masjid knock at the gate, he answers, if it is a man he enters, if it is a woman, he hands her a once piece full body cover that she puts on and returns when she leaves. he does it in a very polite manner, no one gets offended by being asked to put it on, and no men have to risk their eyes falling upon a woman's body while in the house of Allah. We have extra hijabs for women, but no one stands at the door and offers them to uncovered women. We have an issue with men not respecting women at the masjid, even those of us who wear a plain black abaya and hijab, with no fancy stuff on it, still get stared at and harassed. My friends father does not like my friend going to the masjid anymore because men who were obviously not wanting her for the right reason were approaching him constantly, and then sending their friends to ask about his daughter. He couldnt go to jummah without soo many men trying to get information about her. So she stopped going. She used to volunteer there but she hates being there because the men do not lower their gaze. If we say no to them then they start spreading rumors like "she's married, she has a child, she's divorced" just because their upset that they got rejected. the only women who dont get harassed are the niqabi women, no one bothers them at all, my friend and I were talking about wearing niqab just to the masjid to avoid the attention but we werent sure if thats allowed. Unfortunately sometimes we get more respect from non-Muslim men on the street than we do from our own brothers in Islam.
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