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**htDgExh8** · 11-11-2011, 04:24 AM

Bismillah
My late grandmother was married at the age of 12. She raised 6 children who are teacher, pharamacist, Musician, businessmen and women. My grandfather was Teacher and was jihadi (this is in 60s) and was poet. The reason I am saying these things unlike people in the west, people matured early and grew up first. The idea of teenager is an invention of 60s.
So projecting ones relative understanding of maturity on the people of the past and other culture is dissinjenious and simply disshonest. Ummul Mominin Ayesha (RAD) was a female scholar and today even a 20 year old male and female can't fathom basics of life and behave that of a spoilt child. I find the western relative mode of acceptablity stinks of hypocrisy. What was unacceptable few years, today it is deemed to acceptable. Illigitimate relation is not frowned upon but celebrated. Same goes for the notion of modesty.

As for your father. Him being conservative is not true. No concern father would would be so complacent and then suddenly expact his daughter to behave in a manner contrary to the social setting. But his reaction is expected as he doesn't know what to do as you are now considered an adult in his eyes.
Anyway, since you are an arab, you ought appreciate the beauty of arabic of Quran and as such realised the devine nature of revelation and the verse about Ayesh (RAD) was revealed. Rasuallah (SAW) being prophet is bound by revelation.
Islam is here for all situation and as such it deals with every possible halal eventualities. So i see no problem with this at all just as I don't see any problem with poygomous relation provided it is done following due process.
The reason you have all this so called doubt because, your connection with Allah, the most beneficient, the most Sublime is being tested. Focus on your relation with Allah and turn to him in earnest with humility and sincerety and seek protection from the wisper of the cursed one. Increase in your nawafil prayer and ask for a suitable pious husbend from now on as well.

Listen to some of these lectures as it will clear some of the missconception.
http://www.akacademy.eu/media/audio
Allahualam

Allahualam

11-11-2011, 04:24 AM	#9
htDgExh8 Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 454 Senior Member	Bismillah My late grandmother was married at the age of 12. She raised 6 children who are teacher, pharamacist, Musician, businessmen and women. My grandfather was Teacher and was jihadi (this is in 60s) and was poet. The reason I am saying these things unlike people in the west, people matured early and grew up first. The idea of teenager is an invention of 60s. So projecting ones relative understanding of maturity on the people of the past and other culture is dissinjenious and simply disshonest. Ummul Mominin Ayesha (RAD) was a female scholar and today even a 20 year old male and female can't fathom basics of life and behave that of a spoilt child. I find the western relative mode of acceptablity stinks of hypocrisy. What was unacceptable few years, today it is deemed to acceptable. Illigitimate relation is not frowned upon but celebrated. Same goes for the notion of modesty. As for your father. Him being conservative is not true. No concern father would would be so complacent and then suddenly expact his daughter to behave in a manner contrary to the social setting. But his reaction is expected as he doesn't know what to do as you are now considered an adult in his eyes. Anyway, since you are an arab, you ought appreciate the beauty of arabic of Quran and as such realised the devine nature of revelation and the verse about Ayesh (RAD) was revealed. Rasuallah (SAW) being prophet is bound by revelation. Islam is here for all situation and as such it deals with every possible halal eventualities. So i see no problem with this at all just as I don't see any problem with poygomous relation provided it is done following due process. The reason you have all this so called doubt because, your connection with Allah, the most beneficient, the most Sublime is being tested. Focus on your relation with Allah and turn to him in earnest with humility and sincerety and seek protection from the wisper of the cursed one. Increase in your nawafil prayer and ask for a suitable pious husbend from now on as well. Listen to some of these lectures as it will clear some of the missconception. http://www.akacademy.eu/media/audio Allahualam Allahualam
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