Salams, marco100 are you a revert? One thing I've noticed is, before so many of these convert Muslimahs have even learned the basics of the faith, they get pressured into getting married, usually to some Pakistani or Arab born Muslim. I think, in this case, we need to get our priorities straight, if converts are going to be helped out. Salah comes before nikah, iow. Wa Salam, Tempest Desh