[XYTommy]

As Salaamu 'aleykum

I recently found out my younger brother (age 20) being all friendly and flirty to ghayr mehram girls (hes then school mates) on facebook its disgusting, astaghfirullaah, I didnt expect it from him, I am so annoyed, please help what do I do? obviously I must forbid the evil, rght? He has lost all respect that I had for him this is so sickening, and whats even worse is that those girls (mainly muslims) too response him in same manner. Wheres the self respect? Why to fall for someone this low? la hawla wala quwwata illa billa

I am so upset with it, subhanAllaah

So teh update is that, this (my bros school mate/fb girl) sister's wali along with two women are coming over to our house for lunch with the proposal for marriage. To be honest I am not at all happy with it (member of my family can very well see this) cos I know it all started in haraam ways so do my and her parents. What abhors me is that everybody knows about this haraam way of them chatting/talking yet noones forbidding it in action