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**Bxbhtjnr** · 10-15-2011, 10:00 PM

So teh update is that, this (my bros school mate/fb girl) sister's wali along with two women are coming over to our house for lunch with the proposal for marriage. To be honest I am not at all happy with it (member of my family can very well see this) cos I know it all started in haraam ways so do my and her parents. What abhors me is that everybody knows about this haraam way of them chatting/talking yet noones forbidding it in action

you should be happy and relieved, to be honest.

most kids would have gone all the way. Your brother put a break on it and went for marriage, before things got to far. He has taqwa in him, which a lot of kids dont have, and he made a mistake by developing his relationship online. Forgive him, be happy that he has found a good partner, and give him support in his married life.

be happy he is now satisfying himself in halal ways, and not haram ways.

you should be grateful for that.

10-15-2011, 10:00 PM	#34
Bxbhtjnr Join Date Nov 2005 Posts 347 Senior Member	So teh update is that, this (my bros school mate/fb girl) sister's wali along with two women are coming over to our house for lunch with the proposal for marriage. To be honest I am not at all happy with it (member of my family can very well see this) cos I know it all started in haraam ways so do my and her parents. What abhors me is that everybody knows about this haraam way of them chatting/talking yet noones forbidding it in action you should be happy and relieved, to be honest. most kids would have gone all the way. Your brother put a break on it and went for marriage, before things got to far. He has taqwa in him, which a lot of kids dont have, and he made a mistake by developing his relationship online. Forgive him, be happy that he has found a good partner, and give him support in his married life. be happy he is now satisfying himself in halal ways, and not haram ways. you should be grateful for that.
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