I agree, some of the responses here have been disgusting, "not so platonic" I shivered when I read this. If Muslims cant come to other Muslims for advice without being called names etc is it any wonder our confused children go to their non-Muslim friends for advice. At least they wont be so bloody insensitive. They drag them to hell while being nice and giving liberal modern advice and we call to heaven by calling people trolls and making fun of their question. No wonder we went from an Islamic state to the sorry state we are in now.