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**Petwrenny** · 04-20-2009, 11:36 PM

Well yah my course is a parallel course so i gotta go from 2 in the noon till 8:30 at night.its way better than doing a' levels and joining unza.the mahol at Springfields is really bad.i went there for 2 days wallah the non muslims were looking more decent than most muslims!
Bro, ur veiw of 'dunya haroo' is soo like layman thinking.probably living here so leme just remind u of the desperate need of muslim female doctors.so many of our women have to be attended by female kafirah doctors.what is their halat of their purdah then??
A hadith(stte) verily every action is dependant on its intention.
I think my intentions are noble enough for me to pursue my course.i intend to give da'wah at unza and to help the family i.e creation of Allah.
By the way nice to meet a guju bhai!

Think of it as lay man thinking if you may.

I'm from Zambia, studied and now working in South Africa. I studied at varsity for 5 years.
In Zambia, mashallah, the deeni mahol is something to cherish. Ive read your posts and can see alhamdullilah that you are deeni inclined, and for you to be in that kind of environment and studying to become a doctor is concerning.

Just a bit of advice inshallah..

Girls today, from Zambia and parents themselves want their daughters to study.There's nothing wrong with that. Whilst your intentions may be noble however whilst pursuing their studies, I can guarantee you that situations will arise which will require you to make a decision which could compromise your iman. When you're doing your internship, you are going to have to deal with males, a male will come shake your hand, or you will busy in a lecture and your magrib will pass by(these are just a few examples). Yes, you could be the unique one who, who leaves uni with their iman in the same condition as the day they entered it or maybe your iman may even increase. However, given the conditions,are you really going to take chances with your iman ? Do you think a person who sets foot into a lion’s den will come out untouched?

Given the status ALLAH (SWT) has given women, is all this really worth it?.
By all means, if you can study in a mahol in an environment where there are absolutely no influences on your iman, go for it.

From a shariah and sunnah point of view, and looking at the role of a woman, you're going to have to get married one day, marriage completes half your iman. Are you going to practise medicine when you’re married, and fulfil all the demands that come with marriage at the same time? Working and at the same time, bringing up children, spending time with your husband?
It’s always wise to think ahead, as that time is not far off.

ALLAH (SWT) has kept honour, respect and ultimate success in the efforts of deen. That is the best pursuit of knowledge a girl can strive for. Look at Sabrina apa and other examples.

Make maaf if anything I said upset you...Like I said earlier, the concern is that because youre from zed and basically apra wara

Dua maa kaas yaad inshallah..

04-20-2009, 11:36 PM	#8
Petwrenny Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 400 Senior Member	Well yah my course is a parallel course so i gotta go from 2 in the noon till 8:30 at night.its way better than doing a' levels and joining unza.the mahol at Springfields is really bad.i went there for 2 days wallah the non muslims were looking more decent than most muslims! Bro, ur veiw of 'dunya haroo' is soo like layman thinking.probably living here so leme just remind u of the desperate need of muslim female doctors.so many of our women have to be attended by female kafirah doctors.what is their halat of their purdah then?? A hadith(stte) verily every action is dependant on its intention. I think my intentions are noble enough for me to pursue my course.i intend to give da'wah at unza and to help the family i.e creation of Allah. By the way nice to meet a guju bhai! Think of it as lay man thinking if you may. I'm from Zambia, studied and now working in South Africa. I studied at varsity for 5 years. In Zambia, mashallah, the deeni mahol is something to cherish. Ive read your posts and can see alhamdullilah that you are deeni inclined, and for you to be in that kind of environment and studying to become a doctor is concerning. Just a bit of advice inshallah.. Girls today, from Zambia and parents themselves want their daughters to study.There's nothing wrong with that. Whilst your intentions may be noble however whilst pursuing their studies, I can guarantee you that situations will arise which will require you to make a decision which could compromise your iman. When you're doing your internship, you are going to have to deal with males, a male will come shake your hand, or you will busy in a lecture and your magrib will pass by(these are just a few examples). Yes, you could be the unique one who, who leaves uni with their iman in the same condition as the day they entered it or maybe your iman may even increase. However, given the conditions,are you really going to take chances with your iman ? Do you think a person who sets foot into a lion’s den will come out untouched? Given the status ALLAH (SWT) has given women, is all this really worth it?. By all means, if you can study in a mahol in an environment where there are absolutely no influences on your iman, go for it. From a shariah and sunnah point of view, and looking at the role of a woman, you're going to have to get married one day, marriage completes half your iman. Are you going to practise medicine when you’re married, and fulfil all the demands that come with marriage at the same time? Working and at the same time, bringing up children, spending time with your husband? It’s always wise to think ahead, as that time is not far off. ALLAH (SWT) has kept honour, respect and ultimate success in the efforts of deen. That is the best pursuit of knowledge a girl can strive for. Look at Sabrina apa and other examples. Make maaf if anything I said upset you...Like I said earlier, the concern is that because youre from zed and basically apra wara Dua maa kaas yaad inshallah..
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