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**Irravepem** · 10-07-2011, 12:58 AM

Since I got to know that, even if you Don't utter offensive words against someone at his/her back, but 'Listen to' still It will be counted in backbiting.

Alhamdulillah I try not to go that way, but finding it difficult to Stop friends/family. so what should I do?

1. Should Leave the Place.

2. Be enough serious there, so that they get to know, she is uncomfortable with the talk, or at least if they don't Stop, I wont be accountable for that bites?

3. Take side of that person whom is been targeted (I do this one) even they don't agree ... still I will be accountable for that sin?

4. Tell them, I had made Thouba, please change the Topic....?

5. Stay Silent?

6. Stopping your Mother/aunt from Gheebat with showing respect and love will be counted in her Disrespect?

7. OR I am getting it so serious????? I shouldn't Think in that much deep? after all Allah is all Merciful?

for any help.

10-07-2011, 12:58 AM	#1
Irravepem Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 443 Senior Member	Back biting Since I got to know that, even if you Don't utter offensive words against someone at his/her back, but 'Listen to' still It will be counted in backbiting. Alhamdulillah I try not to go that way, but finding it difficult to Stop friends/family. so what should I do? 1. Should Leave the Place. 2. Be enough serious there, so that they get to know, she is uncomfortable with the talk, or at least if they don't Stop, I wont be accountable for that bites? 3. Take side of that person whom is been targeted (I do this one) even they don't agree ... still I will be accountable for that sin? 4. Tell them, I had made Thouba, please change the Topic....? 5. Stay Silent? 6. Stopping your Mother/aunt from Gheebat with showing respect and love will be counted in her Disrespect? 7. OR I am getting it so serious????? I shouldn't Think in that much deep? after all Allah is all Merciful? for any help.
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