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Aslamulaikum
was pleased to read ur post..May Allah give us steadfastness.
Maulana yunus palanpuri said in one of his bayan that "truth is nurtured in such environments".Every nabi of Allah had to face problems.Firstly u should think that this is from Allah taa'la to bring u close to Him.evrytime ur hurt,run to lord n start talking to him about ur problems n He will sort the matter.
Secondly u should try to be presentable..try to maintain ur beard by applying some oil n combing it n try to wear matching socks,shoes n pants(this advice was given to me by Maulana yunus patel(r.a)[May Allah fill his grave with noor].U should remember that Islam never teaches us to be untidy.
Third, u should try to spend time with ur family starting with discussion of how ur day went n ending up with taleem which will brin noor into ur house..The sayings of beloved prophet(s.a.w) changed the ignorant arabs, imagine how easily this will change us.fourth. u should sit with ur brother n make him understand in a polite manner that since from u started practicing evryone is having some problem with u, ask him to support u.tell him that u care for them n dont want them to make an evrlasting loss.tell him how beautiful it would be if evryone in the home in engaged in the obediance of Allah, some in dhikr,some in tilawat etc etc.make him feel that u've changed for good n even he should.
n lastly Make lots of dua for urself,for this sinner n for the whole ummah as its only Allah who can help.
May Allah give us sincerity.