I would say to a certain Degree even Young Muslim guys in Bangladesh especially in the Sylhet district (by the town area) are of similar nature, they dress as if they are "londoners" and hang about to see if they find potential spouses from abroad. I remmeber the days wheni was young and i went BD where it was easy to spot a londer because of their dress - now Subhan-Allah it's hard to tell who is the londoner and who is the freshy. As for the money thing - then it is the same situation in BD many families in BD await some money from their Relatvies from abroad (whetherit is from Saudi / UK/ America etc) - they act like they are knigs - i mean why not just give them money to start up something - like a good business or even make some of them study so they can become responsible people and earn a good living. This is what we have done - my family never sent money (other than giving Zakat money / Fitr Money) for families to generally spend upon - rather our close relatives we have given money to start up businesses - even some for studying. Gujarat or not, the situation in BD is defo like this. When you spoon feed them that is the mistake. Really Bad.