You reminded me of a story when I moved to UK of a brother who is on this forum. He had recently gotten married and had a daughter and I used to encourage him to open an Islamic School for the community since he was influential and well known amongst people. His response, “My daughter will NEVER go to a Kaafir School!” I said, “What about the daughters of the Ummah, don’t you think you have to think about them?” Over a decade later there is no Islamic School in the city and his daughter IS GOING to a Kaafir School! We have to think about the Ummah and Allah (SWT) will solve our problems and gathering advice is part of the solution its Mushwara.