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**23tommy** · 09-07-2011, 03:04 PM

Also, please refrain in future from saying that you are desperate to get married - think what respect a guy is gonna have for you after reading that? Always maintain your hayaa and make yourself exclusive, not free and open that any man can come talk to you. You are a Muslim woman, a treasured pearl so try to adopt those qualities. Only a diver risking his life should put forth tremendous effort to come find you.

JzaKALLAH for your valuable response. I did meet thus guys in presence of my mehrem but when things get serious always get scared and find excuses not to enter the marriage. After things are over I regret my decision but then it's too late :-( btw it's not common in our culture to aak your geothermal or father to look for you a spouse that really is desperate. Also I'm not desperate in the sense that I'm desperate it's just that my biological clock is ticking and I have commitment issues.

09-07-2011, 03:04 PM	#5
23tommy Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 393 Senior Member	Also, please refrain in future from saying that you are desperate to get married - think what respect a guy is gonna have for you after reading that? Always maintain your hayaa and make yourself exclusive, not free and open that any man can come talk to you. You are a Muslim woman, a treasured pearl so try to adopt those qualities. Only a diver risking his life should put forth tremendous effort to come find you. JzaKALLAH for your valuable response. I did meet thus guys in presence of my mehrem but when things get serious always get scared and find excuses not to enter the marriage. After things are over I regret my decision but then it's too late :-( btw it's not common in our culture to aak your geothermal or father to look for you a spouse that really is desperate. Also I'm not desperate in the sense that I'm desperate it's just that my biological clock is ticking and I have commitment issues.
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