Well, another thing to ask would be: "Have you restricted yourself to one specific ethnic group or another, when it comes to seeking out a spouse? And have most of these guys been of an age where you could expect some serious level of maturity (i.e. that which is required for such a thing as marriage) from them? Just a couple of things that popped into my mind. You don't have to answer them...just thought they might be things that would be useful to consider is all... Wa Salam, Tempest Desh