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**23tommy** · 09-07-2011, 06:45 PM

Interracial marriages do work for Muslims if we live our life according to the sunnah, we have this huge factor in common with all Muslims so i dont see why it would not work.

also you are limiting your options somewhat with the whole tribe thing, if your parents do not have a problem with you looking for someone outside of your tribe or race i would really give that a shot, your main criteria should be piety

also always ask Allah for guidance and do istikhara and then whatever happens know that it was for the best for you, If you prayed isitkhara for all the potentials that have passed then have faith in Allah and know that Allah turned you away from them because it would have been something which was not good for you

make good use of your time whilst you are single, you have a lot of free time for ibadah and also you have time to gain knowledge on your deen, when you get married inshaAllah and have children you won't get much time for these things, it will also serve as a distraction from depressive thoughts inshaAllah

May Allah azza wa jal grant you a pious husband...Aameen

No Sis history tells us that interracial marriages are doomed to failure. Too many differences and cultural barriers are a strain to every strong faithful couples. I wouldn't advice anyone dear to me to marry outside their race. As we also know even if the couple are willing to make it work, the family usually is the devils advocate. It's sad but it's the truth in our society. My cousins are married to other races and I've seen hell break lose in their marriages.

09-07-2011, 06:45 PM	#14
23tommy Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 393 Senior Member	Interracial marriages do work for Muslims if we live our life according to the sunnah, we have this huge factor in common with all Muslims so i dont see why it would not work. also you are limiting your options somewhat with the whole tribe thing, if your parents do not have a problem with you looking for someone outside of your tribe or race i would really give that a shot, your main criteria should be piety also always ask Allah for guidance and do istikhara and then whatever happens know that it was for the best for you, If you prayed isitkhara for all the potentials that have passed then have faith in Allah and know that Allah turned you away from them because it would have been something which was not good for you make good use of your time whilst you are single, you have a lot of free time for ibadah and also you have time to gain knowledge on your deen, when you get married inshaAllah and have children you won't get much time for these things, it will also serve as a distraction from depressive thoughts inshaAllah May Allah azza wa jal grant you a pious husband...Aameen No Sis history tells us that interracial marriages are doomed to failure. Too many differences and cultural barriers are a strain to every strong faithful couples. I wouldn't advice anyone dear to me to marry outside their race. As we also know even if the couple are willing to make it work, the family usually is the devils advocate. It's sad but it's the truth in our society. My cousins are married to other races and I've seen hell break lose in their marriages.
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