Bismillah Well i didnt say that sister. That was from the scholar of askimam and I think he stresses on compatibility. I feel ke there is nothing wrong in rejecting proposal based on compatibility. Like if i am from UK and there are people from some other countries brought up there, I would feel bit compatible marrying any one of them as we might have some compatibility rather than marrying someone directly from their home countries as the brought up will be different but this may not be true all the time for some people do live. Allahu alam. As far as the fatwa I posted, only scholars can clarify.