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**ovH9wfSJ** · 11-22-2010, 10:27 PM

Yeah, that kinda sums it up. Except that person ended up not caring about me at all. It kinda made me feel... like stupid and useless and used. Like i don't deserve anything, bcuz i am diff from most of the ppl here, the girls I'm friends with and mostly everyone don't cover like I do. I dont know... I had high hopes and now I feel cheated?

Asalamu Alikum Wa Rehmatullahi Wa Barakatuh!

Dear sis, don't despair over matters which will soon become your past!

Yeah I know it hurts, and hurts real bad! But sis, that is what we all HAVE to bear. We all are put in trials by Allah. It's not just you, my sis.

You know sis, you can ask people for advice and maybe someone's advice might help you get over it, or it can also be the case that no one's advice help you in the least. But know one thing, "time" is the biggest healer! Right now you might be thinking that you can't go on any further, but believe me sis, after some days, your going to be just alright.

Sis, you know that the most painful feeling in the world is when you love someone and the other person don't love you back!

Yes, but still it heals my sis!

My advice to you is that you should recall Allah's advice to us humans. We should always see those who are less fortunate than us. This will make you grateful to Allah!

Do you know, I have had very close relations who lost their one and only daughter. People who have lost one of their parents or even the whole family! The best example I can give you is that of our Rasool Allah!

Our Rasool Allah (s.a.w) was an orphan! He had to go through such hard things in life that people like us won't be able to bear it at all! Can you even imagine living without your mother or father? Can you even feel the huge gap of love and mercy which the Prophet had to bear?

He lost even his grandparent, uncle, his beloved wife, his beloved son, his beloved daughters!!! But he remained patient!

Why? Because Allah lOVE those who are patient!

So my sis, be like my Rasool Allah! Be patient! Bear this pain and Allah would inshAllah lessen it for you!

DON'T feel like you are useless or unwanted or used! That person didn't deserve you my sis! Allah has made chosen someone far more better than that person for you!

There is also a very cute joke about it.
It goes like this:

If you don't have anyone now who love you , don't feel sad, as someone is praying so desperately to Allah for you that no one can enter your life because of that person's prayers! Awwwwwh!

So my sis, be patient and steadfast!

11-22-2010, 10:27 PM	#9
ovH9wfSJ Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 514 Senior Member	Yeah, that kinda sums it up. Except that person ended up not caring about me at all. It kinda made me feel... like stupid and useless and used. Like i don't deserve anything, bcuz i am diff from most of the ppl here, the girls I'm friends with and mostly everyone don't cover like I do. I dont know... I had high hopes and now I feel cheated? Asalamu Alikum Wa Rehmatullahi Wa Barakatuh! Dear sis, don't despair over matters which will soon become your past! Yeah I know it hurts, and hurts real bad! But sis, that is what we all HAVE to bear. We all are put in trials by Allah. It's not just you, my sis. You know sis, you can ask people for advice and maybe someone's advice might help you get over it, or it can also be the case that no one's advice help you in the least. But know one thing, "time" is the biggest healer! Right now you might be thinking that you can't go on any further, but believe me sis, after some days, your going to be just alright. Sis, you know that the most painful feeling in the world is when you love someone and the other person don't love you back! Yes, but still it heals my sis! My advice to you is that you should recall Allah's advice to us humans. We should always see those who are less fortunate than us. This will make you grateful to Allah! Do you know, I have had very close relations who lost their one and only daughter. People who have lost one of their parents or even the whole family! The best example I can give you is that of our Rasool Allah! Our Rasool Allah (s.a.w) was an orphan! He had to go through such hard things in life that people like us won't be able to bear it at all! Can you even imagine living without your mother or father? Can you even feel the huge gap of love and mercy which the Prophet had to bear? He lost even his grandparent, uncle, his beloved wife, his beloved son, his beloved daughters!!! But he remained patient! Why? Because Allah lOVE those who are patient! So my sis, be like my Rasool Allah! Be patient! Bear this pain and Allah would inshAllah lessen it for you! DON'T feel like you are useless or unwanted or used! That person didn't deserve you my sis! Allah has made chosen someone far more better than that person for you! There is also a very cute joke about it. It goes like this: If you don't have anyone now who love you , don't feel sad, as someone is praying so desperately to Allah for you that no one can enter your life because of that person's prayers! Awwwwwh! So my sis, be patient and steadfast!
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