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As-salamu ´alaykum,

To call the sunnah "barbaric" sounds like an "unhealthy" approach to have towards Allah and His Rasul (salla Llahu ´alayhi wa aalihi wa sallam), unless of course you mean something entirely different than what I understand from it. If you really want to change your madhhab it should be based on it being closer to truth, not being more accomodating to your desires. If not, does it really matter what madhhab you follow, as you will still contravene it whenever you see fit?

Beloved brother, please share with us some of the issues you have (or think you have) with the madhhab of Al-Imam Ash-Shafi´i, rahmatuLlahi ´alayh. That way it is easier for us to advice you, if our advice is of any worth.

wassalam