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Old 08-23-2011, 10:05 PM   #39
myhackingtosh_ws

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Women are not children. They are more than capable of looking after themselves and living independently. This is a cultural thing. I managed to live alone until I got married without being corrupted.
Rules are made for the whole country, for the whole society.. And when made by Allah, they are made for the whole Humanity.

It doesn't happen like for example,

Taliban can drive his car at 160mph
ftannouss can drive it at 200mph
Nomadic should drive at 120mph
Naqshbundi cannot drive more than 80mph

Does this happen?....NO...

So Allah sent Islam and made it's rules considering all of humanity till the day of Qayamat. It is not specific to one country or one society or one culture only. It is there for the whole humanity till the day of Qayamat and not for any specific time.

You managed to live alone without being corrupted, your neighbour couldn't manage and ended up in prostitution, that girl in the other city couldn't manage alone and ended up being used by cheap men. That other girl had no one to look after her, so she had to sell her body to work in an office and ended up being used by the boss.

So Allah made a system. This is the beauty and PROOF of Islam I was talking about. It takes into consideration all times, all societies, all cultures and all humans. AND ONLY ALLAH CAN DO THAT, no human can make such a perfect rule and LAW.

Ta'addud is encouraged by our Prophet Muhammad (My life be sacrificed on him) and his Companions. All the Prophets peace be upon them all, had more than one wife.

This beautiful practice shows us how considerate Islam is that the society is properly balanced. You can see what is happening around the world today. Sex, prostitution... You can debate on this too that what's wrong with it? They do it out of freewill. Nobody does it out of freewill. They are forced to do it. They are forced to earn money. Which woman wouldn't like to live like a Queen at her home instead of being a beggar at the feet of men?

So it is ISLAM who gave women this honor.

Allah knows us best. No one can know us more than Allah. Allah loves us more than our mothers do. Allah allowed Ta'addud because he knew the nature of Men (because he created it) and he knew that there will be more women than men. So to create balance in the society, it is needed to be practiced.

You can debate why Allah made us that way, well that's out of debate. He's Allah and He does what is best for us all.

More can be said..

Insha'Allah in time.

hope you understand.

One request again.. Please read things with an open mind and ask Allah to give you hidayat. If you keep on asking and still you don't receive Hidayat (guidance, which is not possible that u don't get it), then you will have an excuse on the day of judgement. You can say Allah i asked for Hidayat and you didn't give it. But the condition is that, You take it when it comes your way.. You don't reject it!

Thank you.
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