Wasalaam Sister. and thank you for your reply. Talking to him is no use, I have done that. He won't leave me dying from hunger, no human being in thier right would do that to anybody. He provides basic food, shelter and clothing required for survival, and I know that once I start making money he is going to stop providing completely. He tells me time and again that once the wife starts earning it's her duty to raise the family. Even now when I ask for something like hospital bills, he hints that I will have to start working for that. I asked him many times, what if things don't work out like that and I don't find a job, then he tells me that he is not going to try and find anything else either. With the income that he currently has, we can barely get through the month. When i ask what if we have kids, then will you take responsibility, he stays mum on that. He has never asnwered in yes or no.