[Pjayjukr]

This will give you more info what the sister meant

http://www.tasawwuf.org/basics/what_tasawwuf.htm

And a brief introduction to Pir Zulfiqar(HA)
http://www.tasawwuf.org/shaykh/index.htm

brother, I hope you wont mind but you see I am just here for adding with my knowledge, not for criticizing etc so, I want to say that Once I asked a query from your mentioned Org, and they answered me exactly opposite of what most of brother sisters guided me when I asked here.

Now how can I trust that site any more? or the bro/sis here were wrong? I am confused now...