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**CtEkM8Vq** · 08-17-2011, 05:37 PM

@Taliban
Istikhara for what Hadhrat? To me this does not seem to be a situation requiring Istikhara.
@Sister Muslimah79
Please sister exercise your tawakkul in Allah(SWT).
Make only moderate amount of inquiry about his activities-then exercise your own judgment and restraint.
Pay enough attention to your personal appearance (good dressing, personal hygiene and make-up) and fitness-join a female gym if it is feasible other wise get some exercise equipment at home. If he asks about your new hobby then just tell him that it is for him-no appeasement, no pretension. And make lots of duas, lots of them. May Allah(SWT) return his focus to you and may He make him more responsible.
Wassalam

08-17-2011, 05:37 PM	#16
CtEkM8Vq Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 531 Senior Member	@Taliban Istikhara for what Hadhrat? To me this does not seem to be a situation requiring Istikhara. @Sister Muslimah79 Please sister exercise your tawakkul in Allah(SWT). Make only moderate amount of inquiry about his activities-then exercise your own judgment and restraint. Pay enough attention to your personal appearance (good dressing, personal hygiene and make-up) and fitness-join a female gym if it is feasible other wise get some exercise equipment at home. If he asks about your new hobby then just tell him that it is for him-no appeasement, no pretension. And make lots of duas, lots of them. May Allah(SWT) return his focus to you and may He make him more responsible. Wassalam
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