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**Dayreive** · 08-18-2011, 06:37 AM

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May Allah help you through this and make this a means of forgiveness in akhirah.

Sister, hang in there. I don't know about all men, but mine certainly does get on my nerves very frequently

What I find is helpful is make lots and lots of dua, like the brothers here mentioned; be very very calm, the more anxious one gets, more aggressive the other one becomes (in my case atleast). And give him his space, which I am sure you do, but make some changes there. And best of all, talk to him.

Don't worry sister, it will all be fine inshaAllah.

salam sister

well yesterday he apology to me told me to not leave .. that he cant live without me etc. than today he was on the way home but stoped in germany ... funny he changed his number ... and told me that the trust is my own problem and hang on. i simply dont understand that guy. one day he is so good and the next he change 360 degree. he say that i need to make so i trust him ... and he dont understand why i dont. pls how can i get thrue to him?

08-18-2011, 06:37 AM	#21
Dayreive Join Date Nov 2005 Posts 354 Senior Member	[QUOTE=saihah;650497] May Allah help you through this and make this a means of forgiveness in akhirah. Sister, hang in there. I don't know about all men, but mine certainly does get on my nerves very frequently What I find is helpful is make lots and lots of dua, like the brothers here mentioned; be very very calm, the more anxious one gets, more aggressive the other one becomes (in my case atleast). And give him his space, which I am sure you do, but make some changes there. And best of all, talk to him. Don't worry sister, it will all be fine inshaAllah. salam sister well yesterday he apology to me told me to not leave .. that he cant live without me etc. than today he was on the way home but stoped in germany ... funny he changed his number ... and told me that the trust is my own problem and hang on. i simply dont understand that guy. one day he is so good and the next he change 360 degree. he say that i need to make so i trust him ... and he dont understand why i dont. pls how can i get thrue to him?
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