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Old 08-18-2011, 10:41 PM   #30
Dayreive

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salam aleiku wr wb

well i give him a lot of space ... he is out all day long even at night sometimes. He is on bussines trip now .... should go just for 3 days but today is 12.
He promise me to change and understand ... even by the imam, and than next day he do what he did before. He calls me bad names tells me how worthless i am as a mum, muslimah, wife and how bad is my shape. I am lossing my weight couse of stress and he tells me to gain. it. Right now i am so depressed that i dont even have more power to fight for this marriage. I have fighted alone for 2 years. He can be nice but than something gets into him and he is like shaitan. He is sooooo cold person ... havent been in the begining. Funny enough he changed his number on the bussines trip. Couse of what reason i dont know. Than he sended me sms that he dont want me to leave him ... and yesterday he again baceme this cold distand person. Hid fam hurt me a lot to ... his mum and dad take allmoust his place telling me i have to sacrifise my self for him. His mum told to him many times that he got what he took an europian ... it hurts me a lot that every time i try to get my rights they use it against me. Is this normal?



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May Allah help you through this and make this a means of forgiveness in akhirah.

Sister, hang in there. I don't know about all men, but mine certainly does get on my nerves very frequently What I find is helpful is make lots and lots of dua, like the brothers here mentioned; be very very calm, the more anxious one gets, more aggressive the other one becomes (in my case atleast). And give him his space, which I am sure you do, but make some changes there. And best of all, talk to him.

Don't worry sister, it will all be fine inshaAllah.

salam sister

well yesterday he apology to me told me to not leave .. that he cant live without me etc. than today he was on the way home but stoped in germany ... funny he changed his number ... and told me that the trust is my own problem and hang on. i simply dont understand that guy. one day he is so good and the next he change 360 degree. he say that i need to make so i trust him ... and he dont understand why i dont. pls how can i get thrue to him?
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