True Islam actually openly preaches that women are property and they are to be controlled by men. Virgins awaiting those who make it to paradise, two women are said to be worth one man, men can marry (and hold "captive") "two, three or four" wives, women can be exchanged like property, "men are in charge of women", men are encouraged to punish women, males inherit twice what women do etc. etc. If you have read any of the Koran, you could list more and more examples. If that guy has actually read the Koran, and thinks it doesn't promote the subjugation of women, If someone is Islamic and doesn't believes in equality of women.... then they're not a good Muslim.