This is what I would emphasize above all else. Too often, when we look around, we compare ourselves to people who have it better than we do. Either they have a job that we would like, an amazing spouse, a nice home, vast knowledge or any other enviable quality. What is more appropriate and what in my experience has given me the energy and enthusiasm that I have needed in the most difficult times it to remember how much easier I have it than others. Think about the shelter you have and the food you are able to eat (in other words, compare yourself not only to your neighbour, but the fellow Muslim suffering through a terrifying drought). While you may not have your father, recall how lucky you are to have your mother, even if she is unable to make all of your problems disappear. And after reflecting on all that, think about how lucky you are to have your senses. You have eyesight to find your way and legs that will carry you there. Imagine if you were unable to even do those things. In situations like this, remember also to seek help from Allah, who certainly has the ability to relieve you of your distress.