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**AmericaAirline 111** · 07-28-2011, 11:01 PM

Well, I am a Muslim Brother who Prays 5 times a day now and has just finished umrah, and I have a few things I really need to get off my chest

1.) I stopped Masturbating for 1 month -2 Month and I am still getting urges and I think Shaythan is making the ideas that Masturbating is ok since it's the lesser sin. How do I survive and tell myself not to masturbate and when will these urges stop? I have gone 1-2 months without doing this dirty act and I still get urges

2.) I am worried about the state of Muslims in Muslim countries because when I came back from umrah I went to Abu Dhabi and saw Arab Woman wearing some of the most harram of harram clothing and I feel that this ummah is tainted by corruption.

Thank You!

عليكم السلام

Dear brother, one is not held accountable for having urge to sin, but will be questioned for committing the sin. Human will have many urges, thoughts - good or bad, but no matter what, use your courage given by Allah to stop committing sin. I suggest you to go to the site of Hazratwala Maulana Hakeem Akhtar Sahab (DB), www.khanqah.com and listens to all the bayans concerning Taubah (there are number of them). Hazratwall have given beatiful examples that will give you courage to leave sin. Also the site www.maulanayunuspatel.co.za. In most of the bayans, Hazrat Maulana Yunus Patel (DB) will touch base upon various meladies of modern society. Oh! my heart cries out remembering the time I spent in his company in Medinah/Jeddah.

Bottom line is - only one medicine works - that is to use your courage and face any situation head long - as perhaps Hazratwala's (DB) mentioned somewhere - "Jan ki Bazi laga dena gunah se bachne ke liye" i.e. bet your life to get away from sin. Do not be desperate. That is what Shaytan wants someone to fall into.

Make the full use of the blessed moth of Ramadan in sincere devotion, adopting different ways of Ibadah, reciting Quran Kareem, Zikir, listening to good Bayans, contempleting the greatness of Allah & His wrath on the generations those were ungrateful etc., and keeping the company of pious people/friends. Do not give yourself time to think about bad things.

May Allah give you and all of us Taufiq to leave all minon and major sins.

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AmericaAirline 111 Join Date Nov 2005 Posts 443 Senior Member	Well, I am a Muslim Brother who Prays 5 times a day now and has just finished umrah, and I have a few things I really need to get off my chest 1.) I stopped Masturbating for 1 month -2 Month and I am still getting urges and I think Shaythan is making the ideas that Masturbating is ok since it's the lesser sin. How do I survive and tell myself not to masturbate and when will these urges stop? I have gone 1-2 months without doing this dirty act and I still get urges 2.) I am worried about the state of Muslims in Muslim countries because when I came back from umrah I went to Abu Dhabi and saw Arab Woman wearing some of the most harram of harram clothing and I feel that this ummah is tainted by corruption. Thank You! عليكم السلام Dear brother, one is not held accountable for having urge to sin, but will be questioned for committing the sin. Human will have many urges, thoughts - good or bad, but no matter what, use your courage given by Allah to stop committing sin. I suggest you to go to the site of Hazratwala Maulana Hakeem Akhtar Sahab (DB), www.khanqah.com and listens to all the bayans concerning Taubah (there are number of them). Hazratwall have given beatiful examples that will give you courage to leave sin. Also the site www.maulanayunuspatel.co.za. In most of the bayans, Hazrat Maulana Yunus Patel (DB) will touch base upon various meladies of modern society. Oh! my heart cries out remembering the time I spent in his company in Medinah/Jeddah. Bottom line is - only one medicine works - that is to use your courage and face any situation head long - as perhaps Hazratwala's (DB) mentioned somewhere - "Jan ki Bazi laga dena gunah se bachne ke liye" i.e. bet your life to get away from sin. Do not be desperate. That is what Shaytan wants someone to fall into. Make the full use of the blessed moth of Ramadan in sincere devotion, adopting different ways of Ibadah, reciting Quran Kareem, Zikir, listening to good Bayans, contempleting the greatness of Allah & His wrath on the generations those were ungrateful etc., and keeping the company of pious people/friends. Do not give yourself time to think about bad things. May Allah give you and all of us Taufiq to leave all minon and major sins.
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