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Brother, many posters have given you great advice...musleemah, sudoku, Fusus...
Excuse some of the other harshness from others...I'm sure it's unintentional

Practically speaking, I wish to add the following to their advice of severing relations with the Bengali lady.

Also do the following:

Pray 2 rak'ats of tawbah immediately. The status of a believer after tawbah is higher than before he committed the sin...your sin is a way of progress and closeness to Allah after tawbah....

Once you have done those 2 rak'ats, go and apologize to your wife, in whatever way is appropriate and succeptible to please her; and share the bed with her tonight...say the du'a of Nabee SAW when coming to her "Bismillah; Allahumma Janibnaa as shaytan, wa janib as shaytan maa razaqtanaa"...or just say "Bismillah".

If you do the above with sincerity, you will see that what you are looking after with that Bengali lady is actually with your lovely wife....and as days, weeks and months go...you will see that your wife is much more valuable than the other lady...

We will make sincere du'a for ease of affairs for you.

Mukhtar