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Old 07-12-2011, 09:21 AM   #8
primaveraloler

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brother, thanks for your nice comment. I always try to be patient, but you know what, at the end of the day you have to buy food, you have to pay your rent and tuition fees. can't ignore the bitter truth of life. At first I was crying in my prayer and asking for help. I talk with one of my friend and he said you should not ask for anything which relates to this world. so, I stop asking for anything that relates to this world. Now I always ask for something for after life. But, if I fall in trouble, to whom I can ask for help. Only Allah can help me. So, which one is right? I must have done something wrong or i am still doing the wrong thing. that's why this things are happening to me. I need to know, what is right? what is wrong? I always try to eat halal food. I thought if I can continue this way Allah give me rizik. but for some reason it didn't happened. I help so many people, but when I need help I couldn't find anyone to help me. why? I am doing something wrong...i need to know.
Asalam Alykum WrWb

Dear brother, its not about something wrong or something right.

To begin with, I dont understand why your friend told you so. If you have needs, you "must" ask Allah SWT alone, whether its bread, money, help and support.

1. Dua is a very very strong weapon a muslim has. So make abundunt dua to Allah SWT to help you through this trial, to open doors of oppurtunities, ways in which you can make more money and satisfy your basic needs.

2. Astagfaar - We all make mistakes, we all are immensely endulged in sins whether small or big. Recite this as much as you can:

http://www.ummah.com/Al_adaab/ilm_ul...istighfar.html

Keep this in your tongue while you do work etc.

3. Do what Allah SWT is asking you to do - That is make sure you pray 5 times, sunnahs, recite Quran. Atleast the minimum compulsory. If you have time, do extra ibadat to attract Allah SWT mercy.

4. Recognise that its a test and will pass - but its testing you patience and sabr. So stay focused on Allah SWT and you will inshaAllah find means to change your situation

Il pray for you.

JazakAllah khair.
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