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**kertUtire** · 07-05-2010, 06:38 AM

Assalaam'aaleykum!

I don't know how many of you have encountered those pushy and heavy Tashkeel by our Tableeghi brothers wherein you are left red faced for not being able to pack your bags and leave with them on a short notice, but I just experienced one such Tashkeel and I am sorry to say that I didn't quite like it. I reckon that it might not be the Brothers intention to cause that situation but it just happened.

I would like to ask veterans TJ Saathis about what do Usool-at-Tableegh and Akabireen have to say about it. Up to what extent should Saathis try to convince others to go out in the path of Allah?

And how does one respectfully refuse if he/she is not prepared to go for whatever personal reason?

P.S - I am in no way criticizing the work and dare I ever say anything against it. I love and respect this work. I must also mention that I do have a desire [not just intention] to go for 4 months, but I would only go according to my own Tarteeb.

May Allah Ta'ala accept me for this work. Ameen!

There are time where I feel angry as well with heavy tashkeel especially when some one who tashkeel had easy live to just pack and go. But, my husband always told me, " at least Allah sen someone to remind us. Although in harsh or heavy way, rather than Allah left us do what we want to do".

So, Insya Allah, even you o feel angry or embarassing, just remember this people are the guest of Allah who trying had to help themselves, to better thamselves to gain jannah and on the way try to help others to open their path into jannah as well. It's just some people had too motivated than the others. Sometimes we do need to be knock on our face, yes, everybody had reason and problem not be able to go out, ( as me my self as well), but alhamdulillah at least we been given a worries and fikir.

07-05-2010, 06:38 AM	#16
kertUtire Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 392 Senior Member	Assalaam'aaleykum! I don't know how many of you have encountered those pushy and heavy Tashkeel by our Tableeghi brothers wherein you are left red faced for not being able to pack your bags and leave with them on a short notice, but I just experienced one such Tashkeel and I am sorry to say that I didn't quite like it. I reckon that it might not be the Brothers intention to cause that situation but it just happened. I would like to ask veterans TJ Saathis about what do Usool-at-Tableegh and Akabireen have to say about it. Up to what extent should Saathis try to convince others to go out in the path of Allah? And how does one respectfully refuse if he/she is not prepared to go for whatever personal reason? P.S - I am in no way criticizing the work and dare I ever say anything against it. I love and respect this work. I must also mention that I do have a desire [not just intention] to go for 4 months, but I would only go according to my own Tarteeb. May Allah Ta'ala accept me for this work. Ameen! There are time where I feel angry as well with heavy tashkeel especially when some one who tashkeel had easy live to just pack and go. But, my husband always told me, " at least Allah sen someone to remind us. Although in harsh or heavy way, rather than Allah left us do what we want to do". So, Insya Allah, even you o feel angry or embarassing, just remember this people are the guest of Allah who trying had to help themselves, to better thamselves to gain jannah and on the way try to help others to open their path into jannah as well. It's just some people had too motivated than the others. Sometimes we do need to be knock on our face, yes, everybody had reason and problem not be able to go out, ( as me my self as well), but alhamdulillah at least we been given a worries and fikir.
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