or you may give money to someone hoping Allah (SWT) will help him with this. not the money but Allah (SWT). i think you and i have a genuine difference of opinion. i see this as no basis for reciting Qur'an on graves.you seem to do. I do not want to partake in any activity over which the ulema are divided. I always choose the 'not follow' opinion rather than 'follow' on doubtful issues. however I am hoping mufti abuhajira can answer me someday