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**Teeppoodiug** · 07-12-2011, 01:46 PM

Assalamu Alaikum, very true with a few exceptions

When men will start being Men (RIJAAL), then the women will learn to depend on them and trust them and rely on them and their decisions.

Since Men are not being Men then someone has to take that position, so women are becoming the Ameers at home and it is also reflecting in the society, look at all the female Head of the Countries.

May Allah help us to become what He expects us to be, ameen.

Salam,
I agree to the point that man is man and woman is woman, we can learn how to be the best in our roles - we have teaching for it - the islam.

It often seems that the strong woman is leader but it is many times only surface. Many times it is skilled and smart man leading, even looks like differently.
On the other hand women develop lot of leadership skills when delaing with daily family tasks, or with task at work.
One can not ignore this and opress in a way development of woman - the god has given her tasks and talents. Here is role of man even more important - he has big challenges to grow even more - to be leader and protector of woman and family as a whole.
Regarding leadership of woman as a head of state - we have had interesting thread in this forum. And I dont think the issue is so simple that it can be refused or approved by declaring one easy opinion.

w alikum assalam

07-12-2011, 01:46 PM	#22
Teeppoodiug Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 476 Senior Member	Assalamu Alaikum, very true with a few exceptions When men will start being Men (RIJAAL), then the women will learn to depend on them and trust them and rely on them and their decisions. Since Men are not being Men then someone has to take that position, so women are becoming the Ameers at home and it is also reflecting in the society, look at all the female Head of the Countries. May Allah help us to become what He expects us to be, ameen. Salam, I agree to the point that man is man and woman is woman, we can learn how to be the best in our roles - we have teaching for it - the islam. It often seems that the strong woman is leader but it is many times only surface. Many times it is skilled and smart man leading, even looks like differently. On the other hand women develop lot of leadership skills when delaing with daily family tasks, or with task at work. One can not ignore this and opress in a way development of woman - the god has given her tasks and talents. Here is role of man even more important - he has big challenges to grow even more - to be leader and protector of woman and family as a whole. Regarding leadership of woman as a head of state - we have had interesting thread in this forum. And I dont think the issue is so simple that it can be refused or approved by declaring one easy opinion. w alikum assalam
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