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As Salam Aleykom
Allhamdullilah after i went 4 months tableegh , i did become a good muslim.
In 2 weeks iam gonna give nikah to a girl. My parent want me to give nikah, its just that the girls dont is a good muslim. She dont always pray & and dont wear niqab. I want a wife who wear clothes according to sunnah and a good practicing muslim . In secret i have find a a sister , who allhamdulilah is a verry good muslim . I want to marry her, but the problem is that my father have promise to married me to the girl father.
How should I tell my dad that I did not want her, but married to a practicing Muslim. I do not want my father to be angry.
I intend to marry her just to satisfy my dad.
What should I do?
Wasalam

Salams bhai

Its not my intention to pick out your mistake brother so i really hope you wont be upset with me.

The fact that you have reservations about this girl that you have been fixed with is because of the comment i have made bold and underlined. It is deception from the shaytan and also your nafs. It is logical to be drawn towards someone who you have affection for and thus you have found an alternative who you like is making you think that perhaps the person who you are fixed with isnt right for you.

Let me guess have you discussed this marriage proposal with this other person?? and listen bhai, if she is also keen on you then chances are she will also not approve of this marriage and have possibly subtle hints in the conversation about what is right for you, which in turn will make you more confused.

Each circumstance is different - you need to speak to an Aalim e deen to determine whether you need to exercise any of those options you listed.

My only word of advise is forget the secret one and then think about it with a clear mind. I know this will be hard for you but it has to be done.

Istikhara is also something you should do.

Finally you maybe thinking that how can i forget someone who i have grown fond off - do zikr of Laa ilaha illalah, hopefully a sufi orientated person can teach you from this forum how this is done for maximum affects. When you negate everything praying this kalima it has the power to remove the love of the things you have negated from your heart if you believe and if that is what is destined for you.

Wassalam