[Kghyutgykim]

But anyhow.... since the figures are used to support polygamy,

It's used to support ta'addud but Ta'addud is not solely based on this. It ain't mainly about women being more than men. It's about nice, practicing good muslimahs finding it difficult to find nice practicing muslim heroes.

Ta'addud is practiced by our Prophet , Sahaba رضي الله عنهم and it has been allowed by Allah. This is enough to support ta'addud, we don't need any figures or statistics to prove it.

Allah has allowed whatever is good for us and naturally ta'addud is best for us.

then let us promote young men to marry much older women-- since that is where the excess of women are! Yes please promote, ever ready...