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**atmowasia** · 07-02-2011, 04:37 AM

It's used to support ta'addud but Ta'addud is not solely based on this. It ain't mainly about women being more than men. It's about nice, practicing good muslimahs finding it difficult to find nice practicing muslim heroes.

Ta'addud is practiced by our Prophet , Sahaba رضي الله عنهم and it has been allowed by Allah. This is enough to support ta'addud, we don't need any figures or statistics to prove it.

Allah has allowed whatever is good for us and naturally ta'addud is best for us.

Yes please promote, ever ready...

I am actually not opposed to polygamy. I believe it has many benefits.

I also believe that the majority of individuals are not able to properly handle a polygamous relationship..... which may go along with your statement about nice, practicing muslimahs having difficulty finding nice, practicing males. That would indicate a problem with the quality of individuals, rather than quantity (male to female ratio). I see practicing males all the time who are unable to find a good wife.... shame they couldn't be matched up with all those nice, practicing muslimahs that you speak of. I think there are many factors beyond simply quantity or quality.

Ironically, usually when I see young males promoting polygamy, it is males who are not married at all and are not equipped to be in a plural marriage. Most of the males I see who are wonderful husbands and fathers have zero desire to be in a plural marriage. The most ideal plural marriage I have ever personally known was a christian man and his wives.

07-02-2011, 04:37 AM	#21
atmowasia Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 416 Senior Member	It's used to support ta'addud but Ta'addud is not solely based on this. It ain't mainly about women being more than men. It's about nice, practicing good muslimahs finding it difficult to find nice practicing muslim heroes. Ta'addud is practiced by our Prophet , Sahaba رضي الله عنهم and it has been allowed by Allah. This is enough to support ta'addud, we don't need any figures or statistics to prove it. Allah has allowed whatever is good for us and naturally ta'addud is best for us. Yes please promote, ever ready... I am actually not opposed to polygamy. I believe it has many benefits. I also believe that the majority of individuals are not able to properly handle a polygamous relationship..... which may go along with your statement about nice, practicing muslimahs having difficulty finding nice, practicing males. That would indicate a problem with the quality of individuals, rather than quantity (male to female ratio). I see practicing males all the time who are unable to find a good wife.... shame they couldn't be matched up with all those nice, practicing muslimahs that you speak of. I think there are many factors beyond simply quantity or quality. Ironically, usually when I see young males promoting polygamy, it is males who are not married at all and are not equipped to be in a plural marriage. Most of the males I see who are wonderful husbands and fathers have zero desire to be in a plural marriage. The most ideal plural marriage I have ever personally known was a christian man and his wives.
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